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April 29, 2024

We often find ourselves weaving through many different experiences in life, some filled with joy and triumph, while others carry the weight of pain and trauma. I am no exception to this, having faced a life marked by extreme childhood trauma. Today, I want to share with you a message of hope, resilience, and transformation, because I firmly believe that we can overcome the darkest chapters of our lives and emerge stronger, wiser, and filled with purpose. We do not have to conform to what society says we will be. 



First and foremost, I want you to know that you are not alone in your journey through trauma. Whether it's the scars of a difficult childhood, the pain of a loss, or the aftermath of a traumatic event, countless individuals have experienced the shadow of trauma. It's a shared human experience that transcends boundaries, cultures, and backgrounds.

Seeking Help: A Vital Step Toward Healing

One of the most important lessons I've learned is that healing begins when we reach out for help. Trauma can be an isolating experience, causing us to withdraw from the world, often feeling like no one could possibly understand our pain. But there are people and organizations dedicated to supporting survivors without judgment, without blame.

You are worth the effort it takes to heal. Your experiences do not define your worth. The acts that others have committed against you do not determine who you are. Trauma does not have to be a life sentence; it can be a stepping stone to a brighter future.

Growing Through Trauma: A Path to Resilience

While trauma can leave deep scars, it can also be a catalyst for personal growth and transformation. Through therapy, support, and self-reflection, we can learn to reframe our experiences and extract wisdom from our pain. The journey toward healing is not always easy, but it is undeniably worthwhile.

Defying the Statistics: You Are the Author of Your Story

It's true that statistics may paint a grim picture of the impact of trauma, but I firmly believe that we can defy those odds. Trauma does not have to limit your potential or define your destiny. You have the power to reclaim your narrative and reshape your future. It takes courage, resilience, and a willingness to seek the help and support you deserve.

By healing and growing from your trauma, you become a source of inspiration for others who may be on a similar path. Your story of resilience and transformation can light the way for those who are still struggling in the darkness. You have the potential to be a beacon of hope, reminding others that healing is possible.

Take Back Control!

If you're ready to take the next step in your journey toward healing and growth, I encourage you to reach out to my team and I. We want to connect you to resources so that you can be the author of your story!


If you resonated with my childhood trauma experience, and you are local to Oklahoma, I would encourage you to explore Green Shoe. Green Shoe is an organization dedicated to providing support and resources for survivors of trauma. They offer a safe and compassionate space for healing and empowerment.

Remember, you are not alone, you are worth it, and your journey of healing and growth is a testament to all that you are truly capable of. Together, we can break free from the chains of trauma and build a brighter future.